Introducing clarity and purpose into your live begins with a clear vision of who you would like to be.
Why most goal-setting fails — and what to do instead.
You’re not lazy.
You’re just tired of setting goals that don’t stick, chasing titles that don’t fit, and pretending you’ve “figured it out” when deep down you feel scattered.
You want to make real progress.
But first, you need a future that actually feels like you.
The real reason you’re stuck
Most people don’t fail because they lack ambition.
They fail because their goals are vague, borrowed, or safe.
You know the kind:
- “I should have gotten that promotion.”
- “I think I should learn coding.”
- “Everyone else seems to be doing X, so maybe I should give it a try.”
None of that builds momentum, because everything is a maybe.
Because it’s not aligned with your values. It’s not you.
Here’s what actually works
The people who break through tend to do one thing differently:
They put their future into writing before they start walking the path towards it.
They sit down – with a nice cup of tea and begin to imagine:
- Who do I want to be in general?
- Who is that person I admire? That future me?
- What would my future self be thankful for when looking back on the decisions I’ve made now?
- What are the things that are good for me? What has proven to hinder my momentum?
Then they write it down. Not perfectly. Just honestly. It’s hard. Everyone needs a couple tries to get this right.
Believe me – there is no exercise with a better ROI than this one:
Extremely powerful and costs you nothing but time and potentially some tears.
Curious to try? Start here.
Just three questions. No pressure. No performance.
Take 10 minutes. Write down your answers in a notebook, voice note, or private document:
- If nothing changed in my life for the next 3 years, what would slowly start to feel unbearable?
- What would the bravest version of me be doing differently by this time next year?
- If I had to live a day I’d be proud of — over and over — what would that day include?
Don’t overthink it. Don’t worry about getting it “right.”
This is just you, getting in tune with what’s been quietly waiting under the noise.
Want a more structured approach?
I put together THE FIRST STEP. a questionare that will guide you through carefully curated questions and you can send yourself the answers in the end. Of course: free forever.
Let’s turn that vision into motion.
You don’t have to figure it out all by yourself.
Every week, I host a free remote session where 2-3 thoughtful, ambitious people like you come to pause, reflect, and plan.
It’s not a webinar. It’s not a sales pitch. It’s safe space. To listen, tell, share and to see that you are not alone in this.
✍️ Or start with “THE FIRST STEP” — a private reflection to help you reset and refocus.
You’re not behind. You’re just acquiring clarity.
And the moment you have it – you will be unstoppable.